{"id":1147,"date":"2025-03-20T11:42:19","date_gmt":"2025-03-20T11:42:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zaimovic.com.hr\/?p=1147"},"modified":"2025-03-20T11:42:20","modified_gmt":"2025-03-20T11:42:20","slug":"okolnosti-nepovoljne-zivotu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zaimovic.com.hr\/index.php\/2025\/03\/20\/okolnosti-nepovoljne-zivotu\/","title":{"rendered":"Nepovoljne okolnosti &#8211; postoje li?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>&#8211; Kolumna za Be Your Own Boss<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Od malena slu\u0161amo o okolnostima, naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e onim nepovoljnim, u na\u0161im \u017eivotima, a onim povoljnim kod drugih \u2013 koliko i kako drugi zara\u0111uju, koliko su uspje\u0161ni, koliko si mogu priu\u0161titi. Uvjerenja idu toliko duboko da smo po\u010deli vjerovati da novaca imaju samo oni na vlasti i oni koji kradu. Za ostale je skoro sve nedostupno, \u017eivotarimo umjesto da \u017eivimo, previ\u0161e toga smatramo luksuzom, malo toga si priu\u0161timo samo zbog \u010distog u\u017eitka.\u00a0Mo\u017eda si ne priu\u0161timo ni\u0161ta. I tako, \u017eivot kao da prolazi pored nas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Od malena njegujemo uvjerenje da\u00a0<strong>na\u0161e okolnosti imaju kontrolu nad nama<\/strong>.\u00a0Ne tako direktno, ali da, krenemo njegovati ideju da su okolnosti te koje se trebaju promijeniti da bismo mi bili zadovoljni, da bi se pokrenuli, da bi bili ispunjeni, da bi \u017eivjeli druga\u010diji \u017eivot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paralelno s time, krenemo njegovati ideju da su <strong>drugi ljudi krivi za na\u0161u nesre\u0107u<\/strong> te da bi se oni trebali pona\u0161ati nekako druga\u010dije da bi NAMA bilo dobro. Malo kad druge ljude &#8220;okrivimo&#8221; za svoju sre\u0107u, za svoj uspjeh, ali kad je nesretnost u pitanju vrlo lako prebcujemo tu lopticu odgovornosti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ako si se prepoznala u ovome, pro\u010ditaj \u0161to sam o okolnostima pisala u kolumni kod <a href=\"https:\/\/www.beyourownboss.hr\/okolnosti-prema-teoriji-izbora\/\">BYOB OVDJE<\/a> i kreni preuzimati odgovornost za svoj \u017eivot u svoje ruke. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Za podr\u0161ku na svom putu, savjetovanje ili psihoterapiju javi mi se <a href=\"https:\/\/forms.gle\/owmnjZRtgMoTYRUy9\">OVDJE<\/a> i \u0161aljem ti vi\u0161e informacija o dostupnim paketima.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do tada, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0161aljem zagrljaje!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iva <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>FOTO: <a href=\"https:\/\/fotina.hr\/trudnicko-fotografiranje\/\">Kristina Samard\u017ei\u0107<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Kolumna za Be Your Own Boss Od malena slu\u0161amo o okolnostima, naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e onim nepovoljnim, u na\u0161im \u017eivotima, a onim povoljnim kod drugih \u2013 koliko i kako drugi zara\u0111uju, koliko su uspje\u0161ni, koliko si mogu priu\u0161titi. 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